I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
PEMA CHODRONLet your curiosity be greater than your fear.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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