If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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