If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
PEMA CHODRONFeel the feelings and drop the story.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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