When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
PEMA CHODRONAll the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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