Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
PEMA CHODRONAll the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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