We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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