Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRONIf you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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