Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
PEMA CHODRONSticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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