It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
PEMA CHODRONOnly to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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