Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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