The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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