Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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