Mature love is loving, not being loved.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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