The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
IRVIN D. YALOMOne thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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