Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
IRVIN D. YALOMOne thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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