The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
IRVIN D. YALOMSome have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Death anxiety is the mother of all religions, which, in one way or another, attempt to temper the anguish of our finitude.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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