… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
IRVIN D. YALOMMy hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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