Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
HENRY CLOUDWhen you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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To grow, we need things that we do not have and cannot provide, and we need to have a source of those things who looks favorably upon us and who does things for us for our own good.
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Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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Everything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something’s time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything that is alive requires pruning as well, which is a great metaphor for endings.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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Encourage literally came from “in courage.” The courage is put “into” you from outside. Our character and abilities grow through internalizing from others what we do not possess in ourselves.
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