True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
HENRY CLOUDWhen you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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