It’s not the darkness that people fear; it’s what they imagine into the darkness.
BYRON KATIEIt’s not the darkness that people fear; it’s what they imagine into the darkness.
BYRON KATIELook at your life without the thought “Something terrible is going to happen.”
BYRON KATIEIt’s good that it hurts. Pain is the signal that you’re confused, that you’re in a lie.
BYRON KATIEAll the advice you ever gave your partner is for you to hear.
BYRON KATIEWhen your mind opens, the whole world falls into place.
BYRON KATIEEvery mind deserves to be free. When the mind is free, that’s the end of suffering.
BYRON KATIEPlacing the blame or judgment on someone else leaves you powerless to change your experience; taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them.
BYRON KATIEOur parents, our children, our spouses, and our friends will continue to press every button we have, until we realize what it is that we don’t want to know about ourselves, yet. They will point us to our freedom every time.
BYRON KATIENothing comes ahead of its time, and nothing ever happened that didn’t need to happen.
BYRON KATIEThis is the time. This is the place. This is the vastness. Right here is paradise. Always. Always.
BYRON KATIENothing terrible has ever happened except in our thinking. Reality is always good, even in situations that seem like nightmares. The story we tell is the only nightmare that we have lived.
BYRON KATIESo there’s only transcendence in the moment. Nobody can be transcended forever. That’s why I say, “Who cares if you’re enlightened forever?”
BYRON KATIESpare yourself from seeking love, approval, or appreciation-from anyone. And watch what happens in reality, just for fun.
BYRON KATIEThe best way of leading people is to let them find their own way.
BYRON KATIEIt’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
BYRON KATIEReality doesn’t wait for your opinion, vote, or permission, sweetheart. It just keeps being what it is and doing what it does.
BYRON KATIE