If you want real control, drop the illusion of control; let life have you. It does anyway. You’re just telling yourself the story of how it doesn’t.
BYRON KATIEReality is always kinder than your thinking.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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To me, health is a balanced mind. A balanced mind knows how to get enough rest, how to eat properly, how to exercise. I have come out as just a balanced human being, and I don’t know anything finer than that.
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When safety is our priority, we live our lives being very, very careful, and we wind up having no lives.
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If our thinking is clear, how could work or money be the problem? Our thinking is all we need to change.
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There are no physical problems-only mental ones.
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So there’s only transcendence in the moment. Nobody can be transcended forever. That’s why I say, “Who cares if you’re enlightened forever?”
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When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time.
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The only difference between heaven and hell is believing a thought.
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Any stressful thought that you have about the planet, for example, shows you where you are stuck, where your energy is being exhausted in not fully meeting life as it is, without conditions.
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When we’re not defending and justifying, and we’re being very still, our answers can and do shock us.
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What would it be like to let go of wanting things to be other than they are?
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The person who finds peace inside and lives it, is the one who teaches what true peace is.
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I can’t love you as you have been or will be. I can only love you as you are.
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It’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
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Look at your life without the thought “Something terrible is going to happen.”
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Peace doesn’t require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.
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