Since the past is unreal and the future is unreal, all your thoughts are about nothing.
BYRON KATIEThat’s what every uncomfortable feeling is for-that’s what pain is for, what money is for, what everything in the world is for: your self-realization.
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Our parents, our children, our spouses, and our friends will continue to press every button we have, until we realize what it is that we don’t want to know about ourselves, yet. They will point us to our freedom every time.
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When you become a lover of what is, the war is over.
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It’s not the darkness that people fear; it’s what they imagine into the darkness.
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No one has ever been angry at another human being-we’re only angry at our story of them.
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Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it. It’s just easier if you do.
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If I had a prayer, it would be this: “God, spare me from the desire for love, approval, or appreciation. Amen.”
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When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
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Put your stressful thoughts on paper, question them, and have a great life.
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You can’t have your daughter as long as you have a concept of her. When you get rid of the concept, you meet your daughter for the first time. That’s the way this works.
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The only difference between heaven and hell is believing a thought.
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The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives.
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God, as I use the word, is another name for what is. I always know God’s intention: It’s exactly what is in every moment.
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It’s not easy to find your own way when you believe that you need love, approval, appreciation, or anything from your family. It’s particularly hard when you want them to see things your way.
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What you’re believing in the moment creates your suffering or your happiness.
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In my experience, we don’t make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn’t personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.
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