Any thought of discomfort or stress is an alarm that lets you know you’re believing an untrue thought.
BYRON KATIEThat’s what every uncomfortable feeling is for-that’s what pain is for, what money is for, what everything in the world is for: your self-realization.
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Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
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You’ve never reacted to someone else. You project meaning onto nothing. And you react to the meaning you’ve projected.
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What would it be like to let go of wanting things to be other than they are?
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Pay close attention to the particular thoughts you use to deprive yourself of happiness.
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The nature of mind is that it loves everything once it loves itself, just as it opposes everything when it opposes itself.
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We say to others only what we need to hear.
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I have never experienced a stressful feeling that wasn’t caused by attaching to an untrue thought. Behind every uncomfortable feeling, there’s a thought that isn’t true for us.
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It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
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That’s the purpose of stress. It’s a friend. It’s an alarm clock, built in to let you know that it’s time to do The Work.
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We are never really in control. We just think we are when things happen to be going our way.
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The most important relationship is the mind’s relationship with itself. In other words, the ultimate – and, really, the only – relationship you have is the relationship with your own thoughts.
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When you realize that every stressful moment you experience is a gift that points you to your own freedom, life becomes very kind.
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What is perfect health? The unraveling of all imagined states of mind.
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In my experience, we don’t make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn’t personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.
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Thinking that people are supposed to do or be anything other than what they are is like saying that the tree over there should be the sky. I investigated that and found freedom.
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