What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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