Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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