It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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