A good half of the art of living is resilience.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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