Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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