The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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