…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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