We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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