The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPhilosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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