Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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