The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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