Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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