We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnce I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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