To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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