Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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