True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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