To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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