The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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