Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWithout sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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