Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWithout sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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