The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWithout sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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