Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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