Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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