Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
ALAIN DE BOTTONInsomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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