It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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