We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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