Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHappiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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