He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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