Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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