How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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