True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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