The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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