Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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