I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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