The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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