It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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