It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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