In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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