Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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