Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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