We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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