One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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