Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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