A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
AIMEE BENDERPouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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