That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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