Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
AIMEE BENDERI am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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