I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
AIMEE BENDERI was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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I want to be violated by insight.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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