He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
AIMEE BENDERThat’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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