I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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