It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
AIMEE BENDERA Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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