As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
AIMEE BENDERWhile she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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