As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
AIMEE BENDERMany kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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