None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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