If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
IRVIN D. YALOMOnly the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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