Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
ROLLO MAYReal freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
More Rollo May Quotes
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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It is amazing how many hints and guides and intuitions for living come to the sensitive person who has ears to hear what his body is saying.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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