The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
ROLLO MAYReal freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
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Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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Artists love to immerse themselves in chaos in order to put it into form, just as God created form out of chaos in Genesis. Forever unsatisfied with the mundane, the apathetic, the conventional, they always push on to newer worlds.
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