Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
ROLLO MAY
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Rollo May on behavior
Rollo May103 quotes“Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.”
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When you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
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Rollo MayRollo May It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
Rollo MayRollo May One does not become fully human painlessly.
Rollo MayRollo May What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
Rollo MayRollo May This personal freedom to think and feel and speak authentically and to be conscious of so doing is the quality that distinguishes us as human.
Rollo MayRollo May Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
Rollo MayRollo May Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
Rollo MayRollo May The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
Rollo MayRollo May The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
Rollo MayRollo May There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
Rollo MayRollo May Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
Rollo MayRollo May If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
Rollo MayRollo May Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
Rollo MayRollo May Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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